"Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest...
Its about who came and never left your side.."
When I look around I find about 8-9 such people.... yeah! It might be a bit hard to believe but yes.. may be I don't know what true friendship means or I am a bit too extraordinarily lucky. I would prefer going with the later as being a disciple of "THE SECRET" you can never go with the negative part.. {As you think..so you become!}
Philosophies apart.. I have seen various phases in mu life and there have been times when I was completely shattered and broken down to pieces.It was this time that those people proved their existence and held me upright...and joined me to "myself" again.So, how can i doubt the fact that I am a bit too extraordinarily lucky!The conversation with all these people remind me with the tumblr " having those weird conversations with your friends and thinking if anyone ever heard us.. we would be put in a mental hospital".. :) .. I know some of them since class 4th.. some from class 5th.... some from class 7th.. some from class 11th and even some since just last 45 days!yeah!
You know what? I'm someone who might take 4-5 months to get completely free to interact with a person whereas this is the same me who also gets closer to a person in jst 3-4 days by jst chats on facebook! (facebook.. the miracle you see.. :P :D ).. After having a look on aol these happenings in my life i come to the conclusion that i should say.. yeah! it happens! ;) :)
All of the people about which I'm talking over here ..I guess they know me -the crazy me,the insane me..-THE REAL ME...which most of the people are unaware of.Sometimes I think that even my family members aren't totally aware of what i truly am...well yeah! that's true in most of the cases. The people (my bffs) know me and love me the way I am. I guess that's the best thing about friendship. You respect uniqueness.You don't have to change for anyone.You can comfortably be yourself and be loved for it.You know all the good and bad about the person and vice versa but yet choose to be seen with them in crowd-despite knowing how crazy you are-what can be better??
Despite of all these there is a very thin line between love and friendship but yet they both are far apart.I have heard people say "Boys-girls can never be friends" and on listening/reading this... I'm always like.. WTF!!..because in people whom i call my bffs ..there are just 3 girls.. (LOL!:D ;) )
i care about and think about each and every one of 'em and vice versa..that's what you get in a true friendship .. ain't it? you get back everything you give to you friend rather multiplied!.I think even if i talk to my bffs after a gap of an year or so...I don't think the differences will ever grow . we'll be talking as if we jst talking yesterday becuz "friends are connected from heart to heart...... time and distances can't ever break 'em apart".
The main difference that I find between love and friendship is that you don't always have to think before speaking as in " if I say this he /she might get hurt " and bla bla.... but when it comes to their relationship partners.. people are always like.." should I say this?? will he/she approve this" etc etc.. In short you can't be as free as friendship when in relationship . despite evrything the fact that "Friends are always there to hold you when love walks out of your life" always stands true.!
People say "pyaar krr k dekho..kya cheez hoti hai.."... but I say "true friendship experience krr k dekho.. pyaar ko bhi maat (defeat) de deti hai..". :) :)
#life_gives_us_number_of _beautiful_friends_but_only_true_friends_can_give_us_a _beautiful _life! :)
#thankyou_guyzz_for_always_being_there!
#thankyou_GOD_for _giving_me_such_amazing_persons_in_my_life.






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