Unknown caller!

Yesterday,it rained a lot. Many electricity poles and trees fell down. Some even got uprooted. Because of these the electricity connection in our area was hampered for aboout 8 hours.It was dark in the evening when our whole family was sitting together in our drawing room and discussing some issues when my father's phone rang. Seeing an unknown number he picked it up with a question mark on his face.

Dad    : Hello!
Caller : Han hello... Mishra ji bol rahe hain kya? (Is this Mr. Mishra speaking?)
Dad    : Han bol rha hun. (Yes.. its me speaking)
Caller : Pandit ji, mera grah nakshatra.. theek nahi chal rha hai.(Pandit ji, I'm going though really hard time).
Dad    : Kya ho gya hai grah-nakshatra ko.. btaiye to sahi.. (What has happened?.. tell me)
Caller : ni.. bs aap aakhri sahara hain....btaiye me kya kru? (You are my last ray of hope. Please tell me what should i do?)
Dad    : Ji.. pehle aap ye to btaiye ki apki pareshani kya hai.,.? (First of all.. tell me what is your problem?)
Caller : Pandit ji..mera kuch aacha nahi chal rha hai..meri biwi se hamesha ladai chalta hia... beta baat nahi manta hai.. aur business bhi theek nahi chl rha hai. (Pandit ji.. nothing is going well in my life.. I have fights with my better half almost regularly... my son doesn't listen to me and even  my business is not going well.)
Dad    : Kya ho gya business ko? (What happenned to your business?)
Caller : Pandit ji... mera hardware & sanitary ka shop hai,... prr wo bhi theek nhi chl rha hai.. (Pandit ji.. I own a shop of hardware & sanitary... and the business is not at all going well).
Dad    : Kyu ? Kya ho gya?? (Why? What happened?)
Caller : Areh.. kya batayein Pandit ji..abhi tk 2 baar chori ho chuki haidukaan me. Ab samajh me nahi aa rha hai.. kaun haath dho krr k aise mere peeche lag gya hai? (Pandit ji.. my shop has been hit by thief two times. I don't really get it.. who has been after me so much..)
Dad    : Accha aacha..!! (ok.. ok !!)
Caller : pandit ji.. ab aap hi aakhiri sahara bache hain........btaiye ki main kya kru ki meri lyf theek ho jaye...sab kuch theek theek chalne lage.. (Pandit ji.. you are my only sorce of hope..please tell me what should I do to get rid of this bad time?)
Dad    : aacha aap ek kaam kijiye.. apna date of bith.. bith time and place mujhe text krr dijiye...(ok...              so you text me your date of bith.. birth time and birth place).
Caller : Main aapko WATSAPP krr deta hun.(I'll WATSAPP it to you)
Dad    : Apk paas wats app ka number hai??.. ye number jispe aap baat krr rrhe hian.. y e to wats app                se connected nahi hai... ( Do you have my watsapp number? cuz the number though which                  we are talking is not connected on watsapp.)
Caller : Theek hai.. to wo aap mujhe send krr dijiye.. phir me uspe saare details bhej dunga.. and          kundali ki bhi pic kheech k bhej dunga..(ok..!you text me that number and then I'll send you   all the details including the pic of my kundali)
Dad    : Han.. theek hai..! (Ok ok.. fine)

The call lasted for about 4-5 minutes.As soon as Dad cut down the phone.. everyone went into a fit of laughter. My dad din't message him his other number. He also didn't call back. may be he realized that he called a wrong number or anything else but the thing ... despite of being technically sound..(being on watsapp) he person had such blind faith in "pandit ji" that he is the only one who can make him get rid of all his problems, disappointed me.

It is this undying and blind faith of people that some frauds take advantage of.We have witnessed many such cases in near past including "Asharam Bapu ji" as well as the case of "Nirmal baba"but still people don't take lessons from these. They search for shortcuts for doing everything and in it they consider these frauds to make them happy in life or to make them get their desired wishes fulfilled . They forget that "GOD helps those who help themselves".

The need of the day is to have believe in self and that GUARDIAN who has designed you to live this life. One should always remember that as darkness is followed by light.. similarly bad times is followed by good ones. Nothing stays forever..! We should just have faith.. -ON RIGHT THINGS.
We are the future citizens of India. It is on us what we want for ourselves and through what way..If each and everyone of us pledge that we will accomplish our dreams but only though hard work and our will power.. and we won't try to get into the trap of those frauds.. the day won't be far when our country will be free of such people and it will once again become a better place to live in. :)

...cuz they give meaning to lyf! :)

           "Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest...
             Its about who came and never left your side.."
When I look around I find about 8-9 such people.... yeah! It might be a bit hard to believe but yes.. may be I don't know what true friendship means or I am a bit too extraordinarily lucky. I would prefer going with the later as being a disciple of "THE SECRET" you can never go with the negative part.. {As you think..so you become!}
Philosophies apart.. I have seen various phases in mu life and there have been times when I was completely shattered and broken down to pieces.It was this time that those people proved their existence and held me upright...and joined me to "myself" again.So, how can i doubt the fact that I am a bit too extraordinarily lucky!The conversation with all these people remind me with the tumblr " having those weird conversations with your friends and thinking if anyone ever heard us.. we would be put in a mental hospital".. :) .. I know some of them since class 4th.. some from class 5th.... some from class 7th.. some from class 11th and even some since just last 45 days!yeah!
You know what? I'm someone who might take 4-5 months to get completely free to interact with a person whereas this is the same me who also gets closer to a person in jst 3-4 days by jst chats on facebook! (facebook.. the miracle you see.. :P :D ).. After having a look on aol these happenings in my life i come to the conclusion that i should say.. yeah! it happens! ;) :)

All of the people about which I'm talking over here ..I guess they know me -the crazy me,the insane me..-THE REAL ME...which most of the people are unaware of.Sometimes I think that even my family members aren't totally aware of what i truly am...well yeah! that's true in most of the cases. The people (my bffs) know me and love me the way I am. I guess that's the best thing about friendship. You respect uniqueness.You don't have to change for anyone.You can comfortably be yourself and be loved for it.You know all the good and bad about the person and vice versa but yet choose to be seen with them in crowd-despite knowing how crazy you are-what can be better??

Despite of all these there is a very thin line between love and friendship but yet they both are far apart.I have heard people say "Boys-girls can never be friends" and on listening/reading this... I'm always like.. WTF!!..because in people whom i call my bffs ..there are just 3 girls.. (LOL!:D ;) )

i care about and think about each and every one of 'em and vice versa..that's what you get in a true friendship .. ain't it? you get back everything you give to you friend rather multiplied!.I think even if i talk to my bffs after a gap of an year or so...I don't think the differences will ever grow . we'll be talking as if we jst talking yesterday becuz "friends are connected from heart to heart...... time and distances can't ever break 'em apart". 

 I talk to people about my bffs when I miss them and many a times those people come to the conclusion that I have a crush on them.. (:D.. lol! ).. but no.. obviously not.. its just the friendship and the memories shared with them.. which makes me talk about 'em. However.. let me tell you (top secret.. :P ) most of them are committed.. so even if i try.. i don't stand a chance. :P :D (kidding!).

The main difference that I find between love and friendship is that you don't always have to think before speaking as in " if I say this he /she might get hurt " and bla bla.... but when it comes to their relationship partners.. people are always like.." should I say this?? will he/she approve this" etc etc.. In short you can't be as free as friendship when in relationship . despite evrything the fact that "Friends are always there to hold you when love walks out of your life" always stands true.!

People say "pyaar krr k dekho..kya cheez hoti hai.."... but I say "true friendship experience krr k dekho.. pyaar ko bhi maat (defeat) de deti hai..". :) :)

 #life_gives_us_number_of _beautiful_friends_but_only_true_friends_can_give_us_a _beautiful _life! :)
#thankyou_guyzz_for_always_being_there!
#thankyou_GOD_for _giving_me_such_amazing_persons_in_my_life.

alien place turned "best"

15th of June 2013.. yes this was the day when i started in my new boarding school the alien place (as i used to call it) "D.P.S. BHILAI". I was admitted in class 11th in the school.However I joined hostel a day late because of the delay in completion of hostel norms. As soon as i entered the place I saw few girls peeping from the door to have my look "the new girl of SG6".Till that time i was known by my parents' name as in " she is d daughter of so and so " but i guess that was the first time when warden ma'am asked dad " are you Apurva's father" that i realized now my parents will be known by my name over here and that "Things change over time".
The first impression of  that place wasn't a very good one . I believe in supernaturals and the aura of that place when i entered wasn't a very good one-may be it was because that was what i was thinking or because of the warden's rough tone or whatever it was....all i was feeling at that time was "I shouldn't have come to this place".All those moments and memories spent in my previous school with my friends , teachers, parents, family  were coming to me as a flashback.I was all mute at that time. 
I was left in hostel and my parents went back to their hotel. I went to my room and managed my stuff in the almirah. I was kinda prepared to live in a hostel because i knew that after completion of class 10th I was to leave my home but in such a hostel where no phones are allowed that was something unexpected.Despite of my mental preparation i had a hard time sleep that night..my first night in hostel!
The next day was a tough day altogether. First of all the assembly which i considered not less than a crowd was extremely tiring not because it was long or something because the place was suffocating. At that time i got to know what a "crowd" really means.My parents came to meet me in school that day and i had a hard time control my tears and emotions infront of them. It was my persistence that i was admitted in this school and at that time i wanted to ask my parents to take me away from that place. Seeing me crying mumma too had a hard time struggle with her tears and my father was in dilemma.. "whom should i ask to stop crying first".
Then in the evening we got PHONE... to talk to our homes. Although it was Tuesday i.e not the phone day (we were given phone only on Saturday and Sunday or on b'day of closest relatives) but we got phone because everyone of our batch were continually shredding tears and warden ma'am was having a hard time control 22 of us together. ;) Everyone cried that day..everyone!   

Days kept passing and slowly I made friends and after that the "masti-fever" as we called it.. never seemed to come to an end. I had a very memorable time in this place be it the excitement of first time coming back home or preparations of farewell of our warden ma'am.... be it our seniors' farewell or be it the excitement of becoming the seniors of hostel.... be it the craze of joining coaching or the excitement of living in pg for the first time... be it the excitement of getting farewell (better to say wearing sarree ;) :P ) or the excitement of celebrating new year away from home for the first tym.....!

Undoubtedly i will always cherish those moments in my heart.I want to go back to that place... I want to live those moments again. I hope that all was possible but unfortunately it isn't.

I guess all hosteller oops.. sry "boarders" ;) of my batch will agree to this that we all again want to go back to that place .. the place we called hell.. we want to go back there once again.. live those moments again... tease each other again.... find out moments to pull each others leg again.. :')